Fuck Your Comfort Zone — Would you date a fan??? ^_^

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See, that’s what the app is perfect for.

Sounds perfect Wahhhh, I don’t wanna
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Anonymous asked:

Would you date a fan??? ^_^

orteil42 answered:

sure but I’m a bit worried about getting my tongue stuck in the blades

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the HAES® files: Fat Talk as a Microaggression

by Ashley Kasardo, Psy.D. You look great, have you lost weight? I’m so fat. I shouldn’t eat that. I don’t think of you as fat. Have you seen how much weight she’s gained? You have such a pretty fac…
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“Microaggressions are subtle, often brief exchanges, intentional or not, that send denigrating messages to individuals due to their group membership. For example:

  • “She’s so fat- it’s unhealthy.” Equates fat with being unhealthy, which is untrue. Assumes one’s health based on physical appearance. As fat activist Marilyn Wann said, “The only thing that anyone can diagnose with any certainty, by looking at a fat person, is their own level of stereotype and prejudice toward fat people.”
  • “You’re not fat- you’re beautiful.” Equates attractiveness with the thin ideal. Sends the message that fat and beauty are mutually exclusive. Bashes fat as a descriptor and makes it difficult for someone to own fatness as a part of their identity without derogation.
  • “I’m not eating that- I don’t want to get fat.” Makes eating a moral choice- you’re good or bad if you eat certain foods. Equates eating certain food with getting fat, or the idea that if you just act “right” you can control your weight. This isn’t the case for many, especially considering the role of genetics and one’s individual fat set point in their body.  Research shows fat people do not eat more compared to anyone else.
  • “You look amazing- you’ve lost weight.” Reinforces the thin ideal. Correlates worth with appearance- but we are more than our bodies. Reinforces the body as an object as well as fear of fat. Carries the assumption that losing weight is ideal, but what if someone has lost weight due to having a health issue? Complimenting weight loss or criticizing weight gain carry assumptions regarding weight and health that aren’t accurate.”
bigfatdenial

Bullet 1: Wrong. Obesity is unhealthy. Undeniably, indisputably. 

Bullet 2: Fat is not an identity. Fat is a variable. You are not your fat.

Bullet 3: “Research shows fat people do not eat more compared to anyone else.” Wrong. Fat people UNDERESTIMATE calorie intake and OVERESTIMATE exercise. RESEARCH SHOWS THIS. 

Bullet 4: You’re reading way too much into a simple comment. Say thank you and get therapy. 

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